In Person Relationship Coach
Or Online Relationship Coaching Can
Fix Your Relationship Struggles… In Weeks.

What is Relationship Coaching?

Relationship coaching is a highly effective alternative to counselling or online counselling.
This can be done in person or thanks to the internet, I can help you repair your relationships from the privacy of your own home.
During our sessions, I’ll help you resolve your issues, repair the connections to yourself, others & space and begin being happier.
Couple holding hands and smiling after a relationship coaching session with Christina Longley

What Kinds of Problems Can Relationship Coaching Help With?

  • Low Self esteem
  • When you walk on eggshells, tiptoeing around sensitive topics
  • When people don’t listen to you
  • It feels like there’s a “fuzzy” communication problem whenever you talk
  • When arguments over small things explode into heated fights
  • Your sex life has lost its spark
  • People have withdrawn or shut down emotionally
  • You feel blamed and criticized – like nothing you do is ever enough
  • Your spouse has angry outbursts and can be demanding
  • You’re struggling to forgive a betrayal of trust (e.g. an affair)
  • And many other common relationship problems...
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What We'll Do Together

Address your goals and challenges

As with anything, the starting block of transformation must be from inside. You will need to talk with someone and find out what your goals are regarding your relationships and what are the challenges that you are facing. As a relationship coach, I can give you a trusty confidant with whom you can communicate and address your fears regarding relationships.

Grow empathy

The most important skills in a relationship is to have empathy. I can teach you how to be empathetic and this helps you achieve your ideal relationships through care and understanding of other people. Learning this essential life skill can help you avoid repeated arguments as you will learn to understand how your actions affect your relationship with other people. I can also teach you how to interpret another person’s emotions and understand it without getting angry.

Create Goals and Recognize Obstacles

I can help you identify potential areas of improvement in relationships and help you work on them. By helping you set up goals and find the purpose of your relationships. You can create a roadmap to follow and I can be your positive reinforcement to help you in areas of improvement you would like to achieve. I can also help in solving any setbacks or obstacles you might face by rewiring your thought processes, thereby giving you a stress – free relationship.
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Self–Awareness and Reflection

I can give you, insight into yourself thereby allowing you to see the cracks in your relationships. This helps you look at your problems more objectively and react better in situations of stress. I can help enable you to think freely from bias and prejudice thereby nurturing your relationships.

Art of Forming Authentic Connections

I can help you master the art of forming connections with people and can help with many problems surrounding relationships. I can help you with any kind of relationship with your family, your husband/wife, friends and work colleagues, anyone who is important to you.

Ability to Create Long Term Solutions

I can help you to create a long-term strategy to solve your relationship troubles. There is no point in quick fixes as the problem can arise again as quickly as it disappeared. Great planning, strategy, and discipline to follow are important for lasting change.
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Lifestyle Changes

I will help you understand the importance of strong relationships and a steady lifestyle to sustain them. In the process, I can help you change many parameters about yourself including career focus, taking care of your health and leading an overall balanced lifestyle.

Help you be honest with yourself

I can help you identify exact what you would like to experience in your relationships by helping you to really get to know yourself and overcome your own internal obstacles.

Set healthy relationship parameters

Help you set healthy relationship parameters as these are of paramount importance for self-growth.

Contact Me

Custom field Christina Longley
Phone +64 04 237 7304
Address Declutter Your Life - Mind, Body Space, 7 Kainui Rd, Raumati South, Paraparaumu
Skype christinalongley
Email info@declutteryourlife.co.nz

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