About  me


Relationship Help Christina Longley Relationship Coach

Hey there, I’m Christina

I wanted to take a minute and introduce myself, and answer the question you’re probably already thinking: “Who is Christina, and can she actually help me?”

If you’re anything like me, you also cringe reading someone’s ABOUT ME page written in 3rd person masquerading as some professionally written bio, but clearly written by themselves.

So, instead of boring you with “Christina has done this and that and is so great… blah blah blah…” I thought I’d write something a little more personal.

At heart, I’m a sensitive romantic introvert and have always been deeply fascinated with human behaviour…

…particularly the bond that occurs in relationships.

You see, over my lifetime, life has led me down a path where I have been forced to figure out how to make relationships work.

I won’t bore you with the details, but the many of my relationships have been challenging…

I’d grown emotionally exhausted from multiple heartbreaks and constantly feeling hurt, misunderstood and alone.

So, one day I made a vow to myself.

I vowed that I will not stop until I figure out how to build stable, fulfilling, long-term loving relationships…

… relationships that brings out the best in both of us.

… relationships where we can be best friends as well as, if a couple’s interaction - passionate lovers.

I didn’t want ‘agony column’ advice, so I figured my best bet would be to turn to science for help.

I began studying scientific papers by relationship researchers. I read all their books.

Over the years, I studied:

Hypnotherapy, psychosensory therapy, relationship therapy, art therapy, developmental psychology, neuroscience, personality theory…

…and anything else I thought might help me understand the dynamics of relationship.