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Online Relationship Facilitation: A Healing Dialogue

Online Relationship Facilitation has a long and well-established history as a dialogue-based intervention designed to help your relationship move through the power struggle stage. This approach dovetails well with the Venus Sequence. Both are premised on the belief that our wounds are the cause of our problems. Our partners are often a great source of healing for our wounds, as we tend to be attracted to partners with similar wounding but different coping styles. Our partners are in the best position (we just might not know it yet) to empathize with what we are going through and where it stems from.

Each couples facilitator offers a unique approach. It’s vital to find someone who understands your dynamic and whom you both feel comfortable with.

My approach leads more quickly to the satisfaction and closeness you desire. I provide a framework and practical tools to help couples move to a new place, ready to do things differently going forward.

Traditional counseling sessions often involve rehashing problems, which can lead to frustration and disillusionment. Many couples experience negative reactions to facilitation and find themselves facing more conflict at home between sessions. This can leave one or both partners feeling confused, hopeless, and alone, unsure how to fix the problems or whether it’s even possible.

Learning these tools early on puts both partners at ease, fosters understanding, and reduces tension immediately. Couples feel united more quickly, saving considerable time compared to traditional fortnightly sessions.

While counseling sessions can be useful, they are more effective with the foundational tools I provide. Couples who use these tools report faster progress.

My sessions are offered entirely online, allowing you to participate from anywhere from the comfort of your own home. I incorporate the Venus Sequence, a powerful tool for understanding and transforming the dynamics within relationships. This sequence helps couples uncover the hidden patterns and wounds that influence their interactions. By exploring these patterns, you can achieve deeper emotional intimacy and connection.

If one or both of you are uncertain, I’m happy to answer any questions or chat briefly. A one-off meeting with me allows us to discuss your situation and develop a plan tailored to your circumstances. I suggest a 25-minute or a 60-minute Zoom session (cost is $115 or $230 inc GST, respectively).

If you just have a few questions, feel free to email me withlove@christinalongley.co.nz